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After meeting introducing themselves and greeting each other people talk to each other and are happy, so, it is important to start the right way. Now let me explain my problems.
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Now let me explain, during
my life, I have noted that the greatest obstacle for people that have lived a
withdrawn style of life, is that they don’t know how to introduce themselves;
for this reason I have written this introduction. It gives the importance it
deserves in real life, I know that there are a few different ways for
introducing people, and some people use different ways of introducing people to
each other, so, my introduction might not be the best, but it points out that
it is necessary to know some forms of introduction.
You see most of us
are not born with that presence of mind that automatically want to introduce
ourselves, therefore, I believe that it is important that all children be
thought and drilled, on how to introduce themselves properly from their parents
and teachers. Not only in the way that I have done it above. But let the
introductions be done in several other ways as it is supposed to be done in
real life. So that the children will automatically be ready when a real
introduction need to happen and they will feel secure of themselves. Otherwise,
they will feel awkward and shy, and they will feel that they have put
themselves in a disadvantaged position.
Now, I want to tell
you how I feel, when I see the way that we behave. But to do that I need to ask
you a friendly question; it is a question that anybody ask you out of
politeness, and sometimes this question may take the place of a polite
greening. But strange as it may seem, everybody gives the same answer to this
question or greeting; and here is the proof of that.
And this question
like a greeting can be: How are you? Or perhaps: How are you today?
And I am sure that
you will answer; I am very well, thank you. Or perhaps you’ll say, I am well,
or I am fine, or I feel great, or I feel as good as gold thanks very much.
And then just to be
polite to me you’ll ask me back. And how are you today? (And then you’ll expect
from me very much the same answers that you have given me.) I am very well,
thank you. Or I am fine. I am as good as gold thanks. This seems to me unreal,
so, I am going to write something hereunder about the ways that we behave, when
we behave in an unrealistic way; so, let us talk about when we behave in a
strange way; even if it can be the right thing to do.
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This is the way that we sometimes behave
The way that we
behave
Speaking for
myself, the reality of life is that I find life has lots of ups and downs, and
even if I don’t admit them to you, I feel them within myself. So, when you
happen to ask me, ‘How are you?’ I may happen to be very much down, but, I will
still answer you: I am very well, thank you! So, my dear readers, listeners or
friends, there are no doubts about our behaviour that it is sometimes strange,
and so, we should admit that the following most times is true.
We behave sometimes as if everything is indeed unreal, when we do say
things that we do not mean or feel. And even when our own heart is hurt and
cries in pains, we do turn to the world and pretending smile again, because we
don’t want the world to see our pains. But all the efforts that we have made
have been in vain. Because our heart still hurts and we still feel that pain.
I am sure that most
of you will agree with me about what I have written above, because you may have
been in a painful situation yourself, and therefore, you know and understand
what I mean. But at the same time: What’s the use to pretend such a thing? When
it is only pretence? Even if it has been able to make one feel better for a few
moments, and one has been able to overcome the inner pains and has smiled just
for a second. But, is all this pretence worthwhile, because you may be
deceiving yourself.
But then it might
be worthwhile, because we have been able to control ourselves and for a few
moments we have felt well in the middle of those afflictions that are bugging
us, but anyhow, every one of us does this his own way, because our lives are
different to other people life and our story is different also, as we all know,
every one of us has a story to tell.
As you can see, we
sometimes behave in strange ways; my own judgement here is that, perhaps it
might be worth behaving in such a deceitful way, not because we have been able
to lie to ourselves, but because we have been able to control our own pains.
And we have been able to live as well as we can.
What I have written
above is part of my life story. So, let us go back to tell you the story of my
life, because we are like everybody else and we have a story to tell.
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Every man or woman has a story to tell
Every man or woman
has a story to tell
We are writing this
article, as if there is a group of people willing to listen what we want to
say. I hope that the way that you are living your life is good for you for your
own sake, because life can be very boring up to the point where it may become
painful. And here I must admit that I am in such painful position myself often.
So, I feel so frustrated about my life that I ask myself. Oh my God! Why life
has got to be so hard and boring for me these days? What have I done to deserve
this? Why don’t I have the chance like everybody else to enjoy life as it
should be enjoyed?
Therefore, I feel
that life has not given me what by rights I should have deserved from it, and
for that reason I can’t help thinking about life itself, and the ways that I am
spending my life these days, together with the way that I have spent the
earlier part of my life, so, I keep asking myself whether life has treated me
the right way. Or should I have deserved a better life? I know that what I am
saying here is lamenting and that is not a good thing to do, because it may
upset other people, but that is the way I feel at the moment, so, I am sorry if
I have upset you in any way.
I believe that lots
of people of my age are going over their own lives like me, and they may be
asking themselves; what is life all about? And whether life has treated them
fair or not. So, they are looking back at the life that they have lived, and
wonder if life has been good for them, and they may have the impression that:
That part of life that they have lived now seems only a dream, a dream that has
lasted for so many years, but now all those years have gone forever and they
will never come back, so, all that is left of their lives is a story to tell,
if they can find the time to tell their story.
So, every man and
woman have a story to tell; no matter how unimportant it may seem, and how
stupid and ridiculous it may sound, when they tell it to you. But, because it
is their life story it is important to them, and they can’t change it because
it is their true-life story. But if we listen to their true life story even if
it is not much of a story, in the end it may bring up some good common sense,
and we can learn something useful from their true story.
To come to this article
conclusion, we should say; whatever are our lives stories and whatever pains we
have been through during your life, we must try to overcome our inner pains, if
we are going to live a better life. Therefore, we have to try to turn negative
things into positive thinking that is the only way to go about and try to live
a better life in the future.
This is all that we
want to say in this article, and we hope that we have been able to explain some
of our points of view. Anyhow, let me go back to tell you my life story, in
next article; my farm life continues.
Menfranco general blog
Turning negative into positive
IS TO BE CONTINUED;
Next time with; about the introduction and other talks.
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Other links from same author
http://publicreligiousforum.yolasite.com
http://menfranconewworldorder.yolasite.com
https://sites.google.com/site/menfrancoreconciliation/
https://sites.google.com/site/prayersofreconciliation/
https://sites.google.com/site/godintheuniverse/
See you soon in our blog About the introduction and other talks.
See you soon.
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